If not, then why do so many people ask for advice on here rather than go to their loved ones?Is it better to ask complete strangers for advice rather than the ones you are closest to?
Psychologists have done many studies on this. Some people disclose all sorta things to strangers on trains. Probably because the stranger will never see you again. They also have an objective view into your life - they are not enmeshed with you and your family. They are like a pseudo-counselor that gives you an objective second opinion.
Loved ones usually have an agenda they are going to project onto you. They do not give objective advice usually, because sometimes they don't want to hurt your feelings or maybe because they don't know what they are taking about (your parents are a different matter, I am talking about extended family).
That is maybe one of the reasons they seek an objective second opinion of a stranger.Is it better to ask complete strangers for advice rather than the ones you are closest to?
Well, there are a lot more people on this site than you can dig up at home. However, it is true that you probably might want tp decide that yourself. You're loved ones may not want to hurt you or may want to ignore it. It reakky depends on the question. If it is something that is personal that some has to have an in-depth knowledge of you, you're personality, habits...etc, than I suggest you're family. Otherwise, on here there are more people and they all have different aproaches to certain things.
Hope this helps, ;-).
because loved ones or close friends might give you the wrong advice/answer so they wont hurt your feelings or ruin your friendship..strangers for the most part don't care..they don't know you so what the heck..tell it like it is
strangers because they dnt have to lie to protect ur feelings but.....
:P I'd say aska stranger xD
They don't know you so they won't bother lying to protect your feelings. xD
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