This is also a problem elsewhere...even people i meet on the street. I have to feel like i'm getting along with everybody and don't want to offend anyone. Help!?Things have to be 'just right' with people at work....advice?
I am the same way. I tend to be over friendly at times and people have even told me that. I too do not like to offend anyone and end up just sounding stupid when I say anything anymore in hopes of not making someone mad. This comes from a bad past I have and I think it has made me feel I have to be over friendly to avoid problems. The problem is, people run over me more than they used to because I can't hardly stand up for myself. I am trying to get better. Sometimes you have to stand up for yourself , even if that means making someone mad. I am trying to teach myself this. Good luck:)
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