Thursday, August 19, 2010

What advice can i give to my mother in law to be?

My mother in law to be's husband has just walked out on her after 11 years of marrige and has left her devestated can anyone give me some info on what would be the right things to say to her without offending her ppppplllllleeeeeeaaaaassssseeeeeWhat advice can i give to my mother in law to be?
Mostly, your future mother-in-law will just need someone who will listen. Just let her express her feelings as she has to grieve over love and marriage lost.





For those who are telling him to get his future


mother-in-law in line, that isn't what the question was. Don't you read? Also, not all mother-in-laws are interfering and, contrary to stereotyping, many men/women love their mother-in-laws. Makes me wonder how the young can be so jaded that they assume all mother-in-laws fit the phony stereotype. Grow up!What advice can i give to my mother in law to be?
I am here for you. If you need anything, please let me know. I cannot believe that son of a b*tch could leave a good person like you. You cannot let him get you down; there are many of men who would love to have a woman like you. Get away for a while; clear your head. You have to be strong even if you do not feel like it. He is the loser for walking out on you.
I doubt there is anything you can say to help, but you can


offer help if you see a need. If not just be a good son inlaw.
Sureher e it goes......Listen here *****, now that you husband is gone, if you start to get in our life and our business, we are gonna walk away, just like he did...so back off...
Tell her to be strong and that you are there for her whenever she needs you. Just let her know she has your support.


Good luck to both of you.
wow that hurts. just let her talk when she needs to. help her with her chores that her ex use to do and just be there for her. dont be pushy or pry, just tell her that you are there to listen and help in anyway possible. you sound like a great addition to her family.
forget about offending her...just set the rules from the begining with her....your not taking any b.s.....and she is to behaive herself
Maybe that he doesn't know what he's missing that it's his loss that he's missign out on a great thing. To remember all the good times and then he'll always be forever by her side?
it may sound weird but--- spend time with her





take her out to lunch with you fiance























































































































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Just be yourself and help out whenever and wherever you can. Ask your fiance first, though.
Just listen and support her. Nothing anyone says is going to make her feel better right now. But, later she'll remember you were a shoulder to cry on. Call her once in a while and see how she is doing. Take her out to lunch or dinner just to get her out of the house.
to stick to her own business.
You need not say anything, but just offer an ear to listen. Let her vent, be supportive, caring. Offer to let her tag along on a Fri night for Pizza or to a movie. She doesn't have to move in, but let her know you care.
There is nothing you can do or say to her. She will just have to have some time to get through it but you can tell her that you will be there for her if she needs a friend you are a nice person for thinking about her
Actions speak louder than words. Sometimes there isn't really anything you can say. Just give it time and once the initial shock is over, she will be more welcome to hear what people are going to have to say to be of help. The main thing right now is to be there for her, things will come up and then at that time you can be there for her, of course you and yours.Hey, and remember it's his loss and she will get a son in law.
Mom, it's his loss.
Just say, ';I'm so sorry that you are having to go through all this';. If she's a touchy type of person, hug her after you say that.





Then just let your fiance/fiancee spend as much time with her as needed, without any whining on your part.
PORNSTAR
WOW! just be your self and try not to offend her cause it mighh hurt her more

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